🌱Instead of appearing as sadness, it may show up as behaviour changes, irritability, withdrawal, or declining school performance.

Because children may not have the language to explain their emotions, their distress is often misunderstood or overlooked.

🧠 How Depression Presents in Young People
Children and teenagers experience emotional pain through behaviour and physical symptoms rather than words.

• Increased irritability or anger
• Withdrawal from family or friends
• Changes in sleep or appetite
• Loss of interest in play or hobbies
• Declining school performance or refusal to attend

These changes are sometimes dismissed as “phases” or attitude problems.

😔 Emotional Pain Beneath the Surface
Young people may feel overwhelmed by emotions they don’t understand.

• Persistent feelings of sadness or emptiness
• Low self-esteem or excessive self-blame
• Hopelessness about the future
• Feeling misunderstood or unheard
• Sensitivity to criticism

Without support, these feelings can become deeply internalised.

🏫 School, Social Pressure, and Expectations
Academic stress, peer relationships, and social comparison play a major role.

• Pressure to perform or succeed
• Bullying or social exclusion
• Online comparison and social media stress
• Fear of disappointing parents or teachers

These pressures can amplify emotional distress and isolation.

🫂 Why Children Don’t Always Ask for Help
Many young people don’t know how to express what they’re feeling.

• Limited emotional vocabulary
• Fear of getting in trouble
• Worry about upsetting parents
• Belief that adults won’t understand

This can lead to silent suffering rather than open communication.

🌿 Final Thoughts 💞🌈
Depression in children and adolescents is real, serious, and treatable.

Behaviour is often communication, not defiance.

When adults slow down, listen, and respond with empathy, young people feel safer to share their inner world.

Early support can change the entire trajectory of a child’s mental health and future wellbeing.