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Dealing With Anxiety – Part 6: Teaching Your Nervous System That You’re Safe
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Why Anxiety Lives in the Body Anxiety is not just something you think — it is something your body experiences.

Even when life seems calm, your nervous system can remain on high alert, reacting as if danger is always near.
Teaching your body that you are safe is a key part of reducing anxiety over time.
This is done not by forcing calm, but by creating experiences that signal safety and stability.
🧠 Why the Nervous System Holds Anxiety
Your nervous system’s job is to protect you.
It reacts faster than your conscious mind and often misreads stress, uncertainty, or past experiences as danger.
Things that can keep the nervous system on alert include:
• Chronic stress or overwork
• Past trauma or unresolved emotional pain
• Unpredictable or unsafe environments
• Long periods of feeling unsupported or overwhelmed
When the nervous system stays in this heightened state, anxiety can feel automatic and uncontrollable.
🌬 How to Signal Safety to Your Body
The nervous system responds to experience, not logic.
Gentle, repeated practices help it learn that you are safe. Examples include:
• Slow, mindful breathing
• Grounding through your senses (touch, sight, sound)
• Gentle stretching or movement
• Maintaining predictable routines
• Warmth, rest, and self-care
These actions tell the body that danger has passed, allowing the nervous system to settle.
🛑 Responding to Anxiety Without Reinforcing It
Trying to force yourself to “stop feeling anxious” can unintentionally reinforce fear. Instead:
• Notice anxious sensations without judging them
• Respond calmly rather than reacting immediately
• Accept discomfort while reminding yourself it is temporary
• Avoid excessive checking, reassurance-seeking, or avoidance
Over time, these responses help your body learn that anxiety is manageable.
🔁 Consistency Over Intensity
Small, repeated practices are more effective than occasional, intense efforts.
Regularly signaling safety to your nervous system helps reduce baseline anxiety and makes spikes easier to tolerate.
Practical steps include:
• Daily grounding or breathing exercises
• Short moments of mindful awareness
• Gentle movement or stretching
• Checking in with your body regularly
Consistency teaches your body that calm is possible.
🌱 Rebuilding Trust in Yourself and Your Body
Anxiety can erode trust in your own body, making normal sensations feel threatening.
Teaching safety includes:
• Noticing sensations without panic
• Acknowledging your body’s signals as neutral
• Practising self-compassion during anxious moments
Gradually, your nervous system learns that it can relax and that you are capable of coping.
🌿 Final Thoughts 💞🌈
Anxiety is a natural response from a nervous system trying to keep you safe.
By practicing gentle, consistent ways to signal calm, you teach your body that you are safe.
Healing comes from patience, repetition, and self-compassion — not force.
With time, your nervous system can return to balance, and anxiety becomes easier to manage.





