Services / Men's and women's counselling
Women's counselling
An hour that starts from what you are actually carrying, with a female counsellor.
What women's counselling is
Most women who book do not arrive with a crisis. They arrive tired in a way that has become normal, running a household and a job and somebody else's appointments, and quietly unable to name the last time anybody asked how they were and waited for the answer.
This is an hour where you are not managing anybody. Not being useful, not keeping the peace, not making it easier for the person listening. For some people that is the whole value, and it takes a couple of sessions before it stops feeling self-indulgent.
The work goes wherever it needs to: exhaustion and resentment, anxiety, trauma that was never dealt with, motherhood, confidence, or a relationship in which you have gradually stopped saying what you think. It is delivered by a female counsellor, and you book with her directly.
What it helps with
- Exhaustion, and carrying the mental load for everyone
- Anxiety, low mood and feeling permanently on edge
- Trauma, including assault and childhood experiences
- Motherhood, and the person who existed before it
- Caring for parents and children at the same time
- Confidence at work, and being talked over
- Body image and the relationship with food
- Separation, and rebuilding afterwards
Common questions
Do I need a particular reason to book?
No. A great many women arrive able to say only that they are tired, short-tempered and not themselves, and that everything is fine on paper. That is a perfectly good starting point. Working out what is actually going on is the first part of the job rather than something you are expected to have done before you arrive.
Will I see a woman?
Yes. Aisha delivers this work and you book with her directly rather than being allocated to whoever happens to be free. For many women that is the difference between attending and not attending, and it is not a preference anybody needs to justify.
Is this only for women?
Aisha's work is with women and with LGBTQIA+ clients. Nobody is going to be quizzed at the door about whether they belong here. If you are not sure this is the right fit, book anyway and say so in the first session.
What sort of things do people bring?
Exhaustion and resentment from carrying a household. Anxiety and low mood. Past trauma, including assault and childhood experiences. Motherhood, and the loss of a self that existed before it. Caring for ageing parents while raising children. Confidence at work. Body image. Relationships where you have gradually stopped saying what you think. Not all of it is a crisis, and none of it needs to be a crisis to be worth an hour.
I have a new baby and I am not coping. Where should I go?
Counselling helps and you can book here. It is also worth knowing that PANDA runs a national helpline for perinatal anxiety and depression on 1300 726 306, staffed by people who do this specifically, and your GP and child and family health nurse are both real options rather than a last resort. If you are having thoughts of harming yourself or your baby, that needs same-day help: call 000 or Lifeline on 13 11 14.
Is it confidential from my partner or my family?
Yes. What you say is not shared with your partner, your family or anybody else unless you authorise it. There are limits set by law where somebody is at risk of serious harm, and those apply to every client rather than to this service in particular. They will be explained at the start.
What if what is going on is happening at home?
Then please start with a phone call rather than a joint appointment with your partner. 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 is the national family violence and sexual assault line, it is free and open 24 hours, and it exists exactly for the conversation you are not sure you are allowed to have. An individual appointment here is welcome alongside that, and nothing about it goes back to anyone.
Can sessions be online?
Yes, by secure video anywhere in Australia, which for a lot of women is the only way an hour is findable at all. In-person sessions are available in Bankstown.
Who you'd be working with
Aisha Homsi
Women's & Trauma Counselling
Aisha works in women's counselling, trauma recovery and mental health support, offering a safe and non-judgemental space for women and LGBTQIA+ clients to process difficult experiences and rebuild confidence.
You will be allocated to the therapist who best meets your needs once you have booked. You do not have to work out who you need to see before you have spoken to anybody.
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Not sure if this is the right place to start?
Book an appointment and say as much or as little as you want to. You do not have to work out what you need, or who you need to see, before you book.
Before you book: the form asks for a few details, including an emergency contact. If you do not have a diagnosis, writing "none" is a perfectly good answer. And if you are booking for someone else, say so in the "relationship to client" field and we will work it out from there. If there is a particular therapist you would like to see, put their name in the "Additional Information" box and we will take it into account.
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Are you in crisis?
- In an emergency, call 000
- Lifeline 13 11 14
- 1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
- Beyond Blue 1300 224 636
- Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467

