Services / Anxiety, depression and trauma
Depression counselling
For flatness, exhaustion, and the things that used to matter and no longer do.
What depression counselling is
Depression is not usually sadness. Most people describe something more like flatness: tired in a way that sleep does not touch, snappy with the people they love, going through the week competently enough that nobody has noticed, and feeling nothing much about any of it.
It is also self-protecting, because the first thing it takes is the energy you would need to do something about it. That is why "just get out and exercise" lands as an insult rather than advice, and why the work here starts smaller than most people expect.
Counselling works on two levels. The practical: sleep, activity, the things that have quietly dropped off, built in pieces small enough to actually happen. And the underlying: what this is attached to, which is very often grief, anger with nowhere to go, or a long stretch of carrying something on your own.
What it helps with
- Low mood that has outlasted whatever caused it
- Exhaustion that sleep does not fix
- Losing interest in things that used to matter
- Irritability, and a short fuse with the people closest
- Withdrawing from friends and family
- Feeling numb, or at a distance from your own life
- Depression after a loss, a separation or a diagnosis
- Getting through work while nobody notices anything is wrong
Common questions
How do I know if it is depression or just a rough patch?
A rough patch lifts when the cause does. Depression stays after the cause has passed, or arrives without one. The signs people notice first are usually not sadness: it is exhaustion that sleep does not fix, no interest in things that used to matter, being short with everyone, and a sense of moving through the day at a distance. If that has been going for weeks rather than days, it is worth bringing in.
Do I need a diagnosis or a referral?
No, to both. You can book directly and describe it in your own words. Advance Minds does not diagnose depression; that sits with a GP, psychologist or psychiatrist. It is worth seeing your GP anyway at some point, because thyroid problems, low iron, sleep disorders and some medications produce very similar symptoms and are worth ruling out.
Do you prescribe antidepressants?
No. Only a doctor can. If you are already taking medication, counselling runs alongside it perfectly well, and for many people the combination works better than either on its own. Nobody here will tell you to stop taking something your doctor has prescribed.
I cannot face doing anything. How am I supposed to come to counselling?
That is the cruel part of it: the illness attacks the exact capacity you need to do something about the illness. Which is why the early work is deliberately small. Not a plan to overhaul your life, but one or two things that are genuinely achievable this week, because momentum in depression is built from very small pieces. Online sessions exist partly for this reason, since getting to a waiting room can be the whole obstacle.
What actually happens in the sessions?
Early on, understanding the shape of it: when it started, what it is attached to, what makes a better day different from a worse one. Alongside that, practical work on activity, sleep and the things that have dropped away, because in depression action tends to come before motivation rather than after it. Then the slower work on what is underneath, which is often grief, anger with nowhere to go, or years of carrying something alone.
I have thoughts of not wanting to be here. Can I still book?
Yes, and please do. Thoughts like that are more common than people believe and they are not a reason to be turned away. Say it in the first session; it will not shock anybody and it changes how the work is set up rather than ending it. But counselling is not an emergency service. If you are thinking about acting on it, or you do not feel safe right now, call 000, or Lifeline on 13 11 14, or the Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467. Those lines are staffed around the clock, and that is what they are for.
How many sessions will I need?
Nobody can promise a number honestly. Depression that has followed a specific event often moves faster than depression that has been running quietly for years. It gets reviewed with you as you go rather than sold as a package up front.
Can sessions be online?
Yes, by secure video anywhere in Australia. In-person sessions are available in Bankstown. On the days when leaving the house is the hardest part, being able to keep the appointment from home is often what keeps the work going.
Who you'd be working with
Shuv Homsi
Lead Therapist · ACA-Registered Clinical Supervisor
Shuv works across mental health, relationships and substance use, which matters here because depression rarely turns up on its own. Empathy and authenticity first, then practical strategies that hold up in real life. If someone else on the team is a better fit, he will say so.
You will be allocated to the therapist who best meets your needs once you have booked. You do not have to work out who you need to see before you have spoken to anybody.
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Not sure if this is the right place to start?
Book an appointment and say what is going on. You do not have to work out what you need, or who you need to see, before you book.
Before you book: the form asks for a few details, including an emergency contact. If you do not have a diagnosis, writing "none" is a perfectly good answer. And if you are booking for someone else, say so in the "relationship to client" field and we will work it out from there. If there is a particular therapist you would like to see, put their name in the "Additional Information" box and we will take it into account.
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Are you in crisis?
- In an emergency, call 000
- Lifeline 13 11 14
- 1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
- Beyond Blue 1300 224 636
- Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467

