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How to Stay Sober – Part 2: Recognise Your Triggers
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In recovery, triggers are like silent signals pulling you back toward old habits.
They can show up subtly or hit you hard — and if you’re not aware of them, they can derail your progress before you even realise it.

Recognising your triggers gives you the power to choose a different response.
It shifts your mindset from reaction to reflection, creating space for growth, not relapse.
⚠️ The Two Types of Triggers: Emotional and Environmental
Triggers generally fall into two categories:
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Emotional triggers — feelings like stress, fear, anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, or loneliness can create intense urges to numb out
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Environmental triggers — specific people, places, or situations that remind you of substance use or old habits
A heated argument, walking past a bar, or feeling overwhelmed by pressure can all act as powerful cues to return to what once felt like relief.
📖 Common Emotional Triggers to Watch For
It’s not always what’s happening outside — often, it’s what’s happening inside. Some of the most common emotional triggers include:
😡 Anger or frustration
😰 Anxiety or overwhelm
😞 Shame or regret
🪫 Exhaustion or burnout
📉 Boredom or hopelessness
These emotions aren’t dangerous in themselves, but when you haven’t yet built other ways to cope, they can lead to cravings.
Awareness is the first step in learning how to ride out the wave.
🏙️ Environmental Triggers and Avoidance Strategies
Sometimes, your surroundings themselves can trigger old patterns. These might include:
🍻 Bars, clubs, or parties where drinking is the norm
💬 Being around old using friends
🛣 Routes that take you past familiar places
📅 Certain times of day linked to past habits
🎶 Music, smells, or memories that remind you of substance use
Avoidance isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. In early recovery, limiting exposure to these triggers helps protect your progress until you’re strong enough to face them differently.
🧘 How to Check In With Yourself
Staying sober means learning to check in before you check out. Make it a habit to ask:
💬 “What am I feeling right now?”
📍 “Where do I feel it in my body?”
❓ “What do I need instead of using?”
🧠 “Is this emotion temporary?”
📓 “Have I felt this before — and gotten through it?”
These simple self-checks help you slow down the urge to react and give yourself permission to pause, reflect, and care for your emotional state.
💡 Self-Care That Supports Trigger Management
The stronger your self-care routine, the less power your triggers hold. Some helpful practices include:
🌿 Regular exercise and movement
🛁 Quiet time for rest and decompression
🗣 Honest conversations with a support person
🧠 Therapy to unpack deeper emotional triggers
🎨 Creative outlets that help you express instead of suppress
Self-care isn’t selfish — it’s survival.
The better you care for your emotional health, the easier it becomes to stay on track.
🌈 Final Thoughts ✨🧩
Triggers don’t have to control you — not when you learn to name them, understand them, and respond with care instead of reaction.
Each time you notice a trigger and choose not to follow it, you build new wiring in your brain, new strength in your recovery, and new trust in yourself.
Awareness isn’t just the first step — it’s the foundation for staying free.