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Co-parenting mediation

A structured, neutral conversation about the arrangements for your children, with someone in the room whose job is to keep it on track.

This is not couples counselling the relationship is not what we are working on. The arrangements for the children are. Couples counselling is a different service.

What mediation is for

Separated parents often agree on more than the conversation suggests. What goes wrong is usually the conversation itself: old arguments arrive uninvited, one person talks and the other waits, and the practical decision never gets made.

Mediation puts a neutral person in the room to hold the structure. You each get heard, the discussion stays on the arrangements rather than the history, and you leave with decisions rather than a rematch.

Time and handovers

Who has the children when, how changeovers happen, and what occurs when something falls through at short notice.

Decisions about the children

School, health, activities, travel. Which decisions are made together, which are not, and how each of you finds out.

How you communicate

What gets discussed where, keeping the children out of the middle of it, and what a workable message between you looks like.

Special occasions

Birthdays, holidays and religious occasions, agreed in advance rather than negotiated the week before every time.

Before you book

Is mediation right for us?

Mediation works when both of you are willing to be in the conversation, even if you disagree about most of what is in it. It is not the right setting where there is family violence, or where one person cannot speak freely with the other present. If that is your situation, call us and we will talk through what would suit better.

This is not a court process and we do not make orders. What comes out of it is your agreement, and if a family law matter is underway your therapist can prepare a letter setting out attendance and progress. See family counselling for what that covers.

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